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Post by R. on Feb 17, 2022 12:44:53 GMT -5
I strongly agree. I would want my funeral to be a big party, I want everyone close to me to be happy as much as possible.
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Post by Optimism is my Phil-osophy on Feb 17, 2022 13:17:56 GMT -5
I strongly agree. I would want my funeral to be a big party, I want everyone close to me to be happy as much as possible. Why would I be happy about your death?
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Post by Optimism is my Phil-osophy on Feb 17, 2022 13:32:29 GMT -5
I think modern society has been taught to be afraid of sadness, as if feeling sad is a bad thing. I believe that being sad when the situation is bad for you or the person you love is normal, expected, and healthy. When you feel sad for no reason, you have a problem. The death of loved ones is a bad thing, no matter what you believe, the fact is that the person you love will not be there like they were before. And this is such a bad thing that we try to prevent it from happening by going to the doctor when we get sick. That's what makes us get vaccines. And when we can't stop someone we love from dying, we've been defeated by something stronger than ourselves. So I guess trying not to be sad when something so bad is not healthy. On the other hand, trying to feed the pain as if you have an obligation to be sad for the rest of your life is also not healthy or natural. You don't have to forget someone who died to stop feeling sad when you think about them. Just as a wound heals over time as long as you don't pick at the wound, emotional pain will also decrease.
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Post by B. on Feb 17, 2022 14:28:01 GMT -5
I would want people to be sad, but not so sad to not go on with their lives.
Hopefully when I die I'm old, so people will feel that way, but the funeral can be more of a celebration/remembrance rather than sudden or sad.
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Post by Violent BUN Fortuna on Feb 17, 2022 18:10:25 GMT -5
I would not like those I care about to forget me. Because I know they wouldn’t WANT to. I’d absolutely hate to forget about any of those I’ve loved and lost. Erasing sadness would mean erasing so much happiness along with it, and I think it would fundamentally alter one’s personality: you’d lose the person who died, but along with it everything you built together.
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Post by Invisible on Feb 17, 2022 19:00:23 GMT -5
I don't think anyone would notice if I die. Honestly, I want The Cup Song played at my funeral and I want everyone to burst out crying every time they listen to it.
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Post by Black Bert on Jun 25, 2022 8:58:16 GMT -5
I don't think anyone would notice if I die. Honestly, I want The Cup Song played at my funeral and I want everyone to burst out crying every time they listen to it. I'm writing your name under my eyelids as we speak. I'm not letting you have your way you little salsa.
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