no-one
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Post by no-one on Oct 18, 2004 18:44:33 GMT -5
asd some of you have read one of my friends killed himself recently, i was just wondering if anyone had any good coping strategys for dealing with losses such as these
all i've got so far is music, lots of nice calming angry music, and i'm gonna dedicate a few beers to him on friday night
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Post by DrSeuss the 1st white rapper on Oct 18, 2004 18:45:48 GMT -5
I lost my grandpa, I know how you feel, its hard to not think about it.
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marisa
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Post by marisa on Oct 18, 2004 18:47:11 GMT -5
I haven't lost barely any but I do remember this girl in my class named Sabrina, she left the school because of the teacher. I miss her dearly. She was so nice and today is her birthday. She turns ten today.
And then my hamster died in March....His name was Hammy and I will never forget him. I named my new hamster after him. I have had the new Hammy for almost 10 months. I miss Hammy dearly and will never ever forget him. I promised him I wouldn't forget him. At least he's in a better place now.
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Post by Vacuum Pot on Oct 18, 2004 21:03:58 GMT -5
My cat died. She was old. I loved her. I miss her. I cried a lot, and that helped.
Then I got a new cat. I still miss the old one, but this new one helps.
Dunno how to apply that to people relationships, though.
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Post by Luigi on Oct 18, 2004 21:08:59 GMT -5
I'm not really good at this whole "comfort" or "help" thing, but maybe you can talk to your friends about it? or a teacher? or something?
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Post by Pope Nocturn Chaoshealm VII on Oct 19, 2004 0:46:21 GMT -5
Ch : I can help you.One of my friends recently lost there couson who was only 13 and I am helping her.I am verry verry sorry for your loss.
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Post by Freshie on Oct 19, 2004 5:48:09 GMT -5
*lots of hugs and support*
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Post by no-one on Oct 19, 2004 7:12:15 GMT -5
i've just decided that if anyone says "hang in there" or anything like that i'll hit them and hate them forever
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Post by Amber on Oct 19, 2004 14:40:05 GMT -5
Unless you have lost a friend you dont know haw it feels, I have lost a friend. It feels like someone has just truned around out of the blue and kicked you in the gut, but the feeling is more empty, A full head of empty thoughts. I am now crying as I write this so I apologise for any mistakes I mkae.
I know how you feel, believe me you will feel much better after you have had heart to heart with someone, I did and I was suspended from school as I didnt go to any lessons but sat in the off ice and cried. You feel hollow, alone misunderstood and ou wnat to be left alone and hugged at the same time, you want the warmth of a hand, but you want them, not someone else, but you cant have them you just need.
I have to stop now,
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Post by MambaduMal on Oct 19, 2004 14:40:17 GMT -5
I lost my cousin a while ago, I guess it's somewhat similar to losing a friend. There's no easy, fast way to get over something like that... it mostly takes time, and supportive friends. If you need to talk to someone, do so (prolly a close friend or someone you truly trust would be best) but if you need to just be alone and remember things... that's good too. Don't feel guilty as to whether you're mourning too much... in time, you'll heal... and you'll be able to talk about him and laugh and recall memories easily and without pain. You should hear my aunt at reunions... she talks about the funniest things my cousin used to do... and it's kinda like he's still there, hearing about him. *HUGS*
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no-one
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Post by no-one on Oct 19, 2004 14:59:45 GMT -5
*big friendly hugs for Amba & Mamba*
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Post by BMatt on Oct 19, 2004 16:07:57 GMT -5
i've just decided that if anyone says "hang in there" or anything like that i'll hit them and hate them forever Seriously though, I feel for you Boo Boo. No one should have to lose a friend like this...have a beer for them and remember the good times, forget the bad times, and know that it will hurt for a long long time. That's where the beer comes in. I'm around if you need me.
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Post by Ashley on Oct 19, 2004 16:15:15 GMT -5
*Big hug* Im not good at this coping stuff myself so i unfortunately dont have much advice, but i hope you feel better soon. PM me if you need a friend to talk to.
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Post by timartwonis on Oct 19, 2004 16:45:29 GMT -5
That really sucks, BSam. When I was in 4th grade one of the 3rd graders died and they made us go to group therapy things. It was really awful.
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Post by marisa on Oct 19, 2004 19:13:28 GMT -5
What about me? I lost my hamster and a friend a while ago.
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