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Post by Celinra on Apr 17, 2004 16:25:21 GMT -5
...I think it's that you share any problems you have, and Nyctophobia, who started the topic, will give excellent (neat-o) advice.
Although I'm sure you could jump in if someone asks about something you know about... *should stop speaking for the creator of this topic before she gets in trouble*
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Post by xangelkimzx on Apr 17, 2004 16:34:45 GMT -5
OK, here's a problem of mine. My friend thinks I bum off her, when I don't, I've only copied her a few times, on small things like notebooks and posters, yet she doesn't like me much...
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Post by The Flossing Ferret of Nigeria on Apr 17, 2004 17:21:10 GMT -5
what I'm saying is that this thread is neat-o although I guess you could say the advice I give is neat-o too. Idunno, you be the judge:
are you trying to copy her? Or do you just happen to like all the same things she does. This happens with two of my friends a lot about, what better a topic than, cheese. You can feel free to like what you like, but remember to speak out if someone thinks you're being a poser.
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Post by JeromeSqualor on Apr 17, 2004 21:24:58 GMT -5
of course YOU'D think that jerome....  Maybe because it was true... |
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Post by xangelkimzx on Apr 18, 2004 14:52:48 GMT -5
what I'm saying is that this thread is neat-o although I guess you could say the advice I give is neat-o too. Idunno, you be the judge: are you trying to copy her? Or do you just happen to like all the same things she does. This happens with two of my friends a lot about, what better a topic than, cheese. You can feel free to like what you like, but remember to speak out if someone thinks you're being a poser. No, but I don't copy her! We just have stuff in common. Plus there's loadsa things that she loves which I hate, so... |
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Post by Addieor on Apr 18, 2004 14:58:25 GMT -5
I have this really nice friend and she is a good person, but she's always following me around. She doesn't share classes with me, but in homeroom, she sits by me and , lately, it's kind of annoying. Should I just wait till the end of the year or tell her to bug off now? I don't want her to shun me, 'cause she really can be a good friend.
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Post by The Flossing Ferret of Nigeria on Apr 19, 2004 19:54:47 GMT -5
You could invite her to hang out with some of your other friends so maybe she won't annoy you as much. I used to have this problem too, but it wore off and now we just talk a bit. Maybe, in time, your somewhat annoying friend won't be drawn to you as much. In this case, she sits by you so it will be a bit harder. Another thing, if you tell her that she's bugging you now, she'll understand if she's a true friend. It's usually easy to tell a friend to bug off.
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About the copying thing, sometime, you could just mention how uncanny it is that you have so much in common.
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Post by xangelkimzx on Apr 20, 2004 14:27:08 GMT -5
OK, thanksssss..... ;D
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Post by The Flossing Ferret of Nigeria on Apr 21, 2004 16:58:14 GMT -5
your welcome! *gives everyone a box of colored pencils*
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Post by Tay Sachs on Apr 21, 2004 21:34:32 GMT -5
Ok, I need advice. I started dating this guy because of pity (stupid me)
now I can't get rid of him. What's the right moment to break his heart? I hate this breaking up thing, hence I have always driveen guys I am sick of to dump me, so I wouldn't feel like the bad guy. That won't work on this one because he is chained to my leg like a starving, ugly, lovesick puppy. With scabies. Should I light candles, dress up? It's going to suck either way, but any way to make it easier on him?
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Post by Dark on Apr 21, 2004 21:44:11 GMT -5
Something similar is happeneing to me. I "dated" a girl for pity. And, although I haven't called her like in 2 weeks, I don't know what to do or tell her. I thought of "it's not you, it's me, I'm a very bad guy and I don't deserve you" but that's very common.
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Post by JeromeSqualor on Apr 21, 2004 22:16:54 GMT -5
Tell the puupy you are a lesbian...
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Post by SlightlyMad on Apr 22, 2004 13:00:41 GMT -5
And technically it's not a lie as you are bi
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Post by xangelkimzx on Apr 22, 2004 15:16:37 GMT -5
Well if I were you two (the ones with the problems) I would just tell them starightforward, rather than keep them waiting. Just say, "I'm really sorry, but -- I don't really like you in that way anymore. Maybe we could still be friends though" because it's best to tell them the truth than keep them waiting. I'm sure they'll get over the break up one day and follow someone else.  I hope I helped. |
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Post by The Flossing Ferret of Nigeria on Apr 23, 2004 21:59:33 GMT -5
From experience, if you tell them to "just be friends" won't they still love you? I mean he/she could probably not have a casual convo with you. He/she will always have this thing for you and you'll be "just a friend". If you're outgoing, you could tell them in person and take a chance, or you could write them a letter over the weekend or a vacation so they won't come back so school the very next day and have all these questions. You'll both have time to "cool down".
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I hope I helped.
