Post by B. on Aug 26, 2023 1:13:30 GMT -5
Welcome to the advice thread, where you can ask strangers on the internet from a forum you have frequented since you were a child other 667ers for impartial life advice. Because we mostly only interact with each other online/outside of day-to-day, it could be a good idea to look objectively at our issues here.
I'll start: I recently hung out with a few colleagues outside of work, and there was one in particular I really hit it off with. He isn't my usual type, but did ask for my number and to hang out outside of work alone. I gave him my number and let him buy me a drink. We do not work closely together, but are on the same floor. How would you proceed (based on this info alone)?
b) Now add to the mix: I have (recently) been back in touch with an ex-partner who lives abroad, but is from London. He is based on the other side of the world, but we have seen each other twice in London recently and spent the night together both times. The last time I saw him he introduced me to his parents. I'm kind of still hung up on this person after meeting in numerous different cities since 2019 on and off, but having never lived in the same place never had a relationship. I'd like to be with this person, but there is only a small chance he may move back to Europe within the next year. Long distance isn't an option.
Knowing this information, how would you proceed?
(ask your other life advice here, romantic or otherwise).
-B.
I'll start: I recently hung out with a few colleagues outside of work, and there was one in particular I really hit it off with. He isn't my usual type, but did ask for my number and to hang out outside of work alone. I gave him my number and let him buy me a drink. We do not work closely together, but are on the same floor. How would you proceed (based on this info alone)?
b) Now add to the mix: I have (recently) been back in touch with an ex-partner who lives abroad, but is from London. He is based on the other side of the world, but we have seen each other twice in London recently and spent the night together both times. The last time I saw him he introduced me to his parents. I'm kind of still hung up on this person after meeting in numerous different cities since 2019 on and off, but having never lived in the same place never had a relationship. I'd like to be with this person, but there is only a small chance he may move back to Europe within the next year. Long distance isn't an option.
Knowing this information, how would you proceed?
(ask your other life advice here, romantic or otherwise).
-B.