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Love
Oct 21, 2003 18:41:52 GMT -5
Post by katgrrl247 on Oct 21, 2003 18:41:52 GMT -5
What do you think it's like to be in love? How do you feel crushes and love are different? Do you think it's possible for teens to fall in love?
I sorta am falling for a guyfriend of mine. There's no way I'd ever tell him, he's not that kinda person. How do you let your crushes know you like-like em without being weird?
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Love
Oct 21, 2003 18:43:55 GMT -5
Post by Fancy on Oct 21, 2003 18:43:55 GMT -5
Crushes are when you're blinded by hormones. Love is way deeper than that.
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Love
Oct 21, 2003 18:47:59 GMT -5
Post by pennyroyal on Oct 21, 2003 18:47:59 GMT -5
At any rate love is more than "(Insert name here) is HOTT"
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Love
Oct 21, 2003 18:49:34 GMT -5
Post by Indistinguishable Blob on Oct 21, 2003 18:49:34 GMT -5
Oh...one of my favorite things to rant about...
I hate it when people my age say they are "in love" (though there ARE exceptions to every rule. Mamba and Bsam, for instance). How? How can most of these people possibly be in love?
We are young. We've not been around long enough to know anything. Love is a very serious thing. Love is very deep and whatnot...crushes are...different. Meh.
I don't think there is any way to do that. It's always awkward, it's always embarrassing...or maybe I'm just cynical.
On a closing note to my ramble, I will quote the Magnetic Fields:
"We don't know anything...You don't know anything...I don't know anything about love..."
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Love
Oct 21, 2003 18:54:27 GMT -5
Post by katgrrl247 on Oct 21, 2003 18:54:27 GMT -5
I agree and disagree. I agree there's a difference between crushes and love. I think people our age CAN fall in love, else I don't know what to call what I've been in. Love is caring so deeply about someone that you hurt when you're not around them, and you think about them all the time. Love is being overjoyed just being with the person, enjoying their presense. You have to know the person for awhile to love them. Love is that warm, butterflies-in-the-stomach feeling you get around that special person. I still have no idea what to do about my love, though.
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Love
Oct 21, 2003 19:03:08 GMT -5
Post by MambaduMal on Oct 21, 2003 19:03:08 GMT -5
Well, that pretty much describes what I feel for Sam...
I know I've never met him, and there's a nagging part of my brain that says that it can't be love then...
It feels like love though.
Madame was right on with the Magnetic Fields quote... I used to think I knew what love was, now I'm not so sure...
I'm not sure what kind of relationship other people my age have. I'm sure there are plenty of caring relationships where they enjoy each other's company, and possibly others who get butterflies yet don't really care.
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Love
Oct 21, 2003 20:12:21 GMT -5
Post by Daniel Orion Lambert on Oct 21, 2003 20:12:21 GMT -5
Well, I am also only a teenager, but I do believe my opinions help. Oh yes... I must mention that I am a guy (If you hadn't already guessed that through my name). So I should logically think differently from you females. Love is possibly found at any age... I do agree that hormones will cloud your judgement though. Wanting to be around a person and caring for them can also be explained through this same reason. However, one may find a person that will truly spark love, true love, further down the road. It doesn't neccesarily have to be a perfect relationship either. (Elementary School Chemistry... Likes repel.) A person who is too much like you will have far too many arguments. They tend to feel strongly about the same subjects that you feel strongly about. This can cause someone to say something that is hurtful or damaging to the relationship. In essence, it is possible to find love as a teenager. Though chemical disruptions in your body can affect your actions which will, in turn, hurt your chances at aquiring your love's mutual love. As a guy, I know what guys will say just to get a girlfriend... I've had my stab at that in Middle School. It's pathetic! Now occasionally you will meet a guy who is more concerned with making his love happy, only for self satisfaction (In my case... Not bragging, only using myself as an example). But I have noticed that guys like that tend to hang with more girls and date much less. *laughes* Anyway, those are some trends you'll notice... The best way is to ask the person what their opinions about girls are, but like I said, these can be distorted by a will to attract a girlfriend... I will stop my gratuitously long message... Tell me if you want more of my stupid philosophy... Just trying to help...
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Love
Oct 22, 2003 17:54:08 GMT -5
Post by RENeNULLMIN on Oct 22, 2003 17:54:08 GMT -5
well i think your right ! ;D so im going to change the subject . ok if u are a teenager and u aresop much in lovedo u think its ok to have sex ?
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Love
Oct 22, 2003 18:49:12 GMT -5
Post by pennyroyal on Oct 22, 2003 18:49:12 GMT -5
do you think it's ok to make typos?
i think sex before marriage at any age is a bad idea.
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Love
Oct 22, 2003 19:14:29 GMT -5
Post by katgrrl247 on Oct 22, 2003 19:14:29 GMT -5
NO don't change the subject! There's already a topic here called SEX, this one is LOVE. Post there if that's your question!
I guess I sorta see what you people are saying.
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Love
Oct 24, 2003 20:10:29 GMT -5
Post by katgrrl247 on Oct 24, 2003 20:10:29 GMT -5
Do you think it's okay for girls to ask out guys?
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Love
Oct 24, 2003 22:13:05 GMT -5
Post by Indistinguishable Blob on Oct 24, 2003 22:13:05 GMT -5
Yeah. Why shouldn't they?
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Love
Oct 24, 2003 22:46:58 GMT -5
Post by ponygirl's vapor on Oct 24, 2003 22:46:58 GMT -5
It's not what some people would call "the proper" way too do it.. but, I'm sure girls get sick of wating on letting the guys ask them..
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Love
Oct 24, 2003 23:28:38 GMT -5
Post by CountOlaf on Oct 24, 2003 23:28:38 GMT -5
*looks at fingers and counts*
*five hours later*
Umm, i've had over 1 million crushes....a billion to be more precise. I guess that means about....100 crushes a day?
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Love
Oct 24, 2003 23:45:03 GMT -5
Post by Salex_ on Oct 24, 2003 23:45:03 GMT -5
I think it's pathetic for girls to ask guys out. But it doesn't really matter if it isn't that "romantic", which is usually the case when you're only 13, it might get romantic when you're 18 or something. Unless you're a pervert and treat a "date" at 14 as if it's the day/night of your first kiss or something. And I agree with you Shadowfax, when it's love it's love, when it's something else, it's that.
By the way, can, "Oh I love him/her so much, he/she's good at math!" be considered as love? Probably way deeper.
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